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This is a safe space to find resources for partners of pornography addicts. It’s with mixed feelings that I say that I’m glad you’re here because I wish you weren’t going through this situation at all. At the same time, I’ve been there and know how much his pornography addiction has hurt you and turned your life upside down. Let’s experience transformation and healing together.
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Partners of porn addicts often say they don’t feel like themselves anymore. Discovery is devastating. Self-doubt and self-blame take their toll. Always thinking you are not enough or wondering how you can change yourself pulls you further and further away from your...
Deciding to Trust Him Again
Discovering your significant other’s secret obsession with pornography creates distrust. When you have been hurt, it is difficult to know if it will ever be safe to trust again. The reality is that you never really know for sure. Working through the pain and regaining...
Don’t Let His Porn Use Ruin Your Life
When you discover that your husband has been secretly obsessed with pornography, it creates negative thoughts and emotions. Beyond the shock and anger lives self-criticism. You wonder what is wrong with you. Why would he need to spend so much time and energy watching...
5 Ways to Feel More Confident After Betrayal
Discovering your husband has been hiding compulsive pornography use can shatter your self-confidence. You may even begin to view yourself in a negative way and doubt yourself. It seems logical that he would turn to pornography because he thoght those women were better...
How to Heal Rejection
When your husband turns to porn instead of being intimate with you, it feels like rejection. Instead of feeling accepted and loved, you feel like you aren’t good enough. You’re not what he wants. It can even feel like you are being pushed out of his life. Hope for...
Partners of Porn Addicts: Let Go of the Betrayal
The betrayal you feel when you discover your significant other’s secret porn use is intense. It shakes you to the core. You expected him to have your best interests at heart and he didn’t. The openness and honesty that you thought your relationship was built on...
Three Components of Self-Compassion for Partners of Porn Addicts
Discovering that your significant other has a problem with pornography is traumatic. It’s important to have self-compassion as you navigate the aftermath of discovery and begin the journey of recovery. Self-compassion will help you through the pain and suffering....
How Betrayal Changes You
Partners of porn addicts are betrayed by one of the people they trust most in the world, their significant other. Discovery changes you. Discovering that your significant other has a secret, porn habit is devastating. It’s a shock. It’s a loss in so many ways. You...
How to Change Negative Self-Talk to Positive Self-Talk
Self-talk is the inner dialogue you have with yourself. The inner dialogue consists of the thoughts that you don’t speak out loud but you say to yourself in your mind. It can be positive, negative, or neutral. People in general often engage in negative self-talk....
Welcome
I am a wife, a mother, a sister, a daughter, an animal lover, a wine lover, a music lover, and the partner of a pornography addict. I look forward to connecting with you through your healing process. In my professional life, I am a healthcare businesswoman and a certified transformational life coach. Because of my own personal experience as a partner of a pornography addict, I am on a mission to provide resources for partners of pornography addicts, and help others heal and grow so they can live an amazing life.
-Rene
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