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This is a safe space to find resources for partners of pornography addicts. It’s with mixed feelings that I say that I’m glad you’re here because I wish you weren’t going through this situation at all. At the same time, I’ve been there and know how much his pornography addiction has hurt you and turned your life upside down. Let’s experience transformation and healing together.
How to Improve Your Emotional Wellbeing
Your emotions are tied to our overall health and wellbeing. After discovering your significant other has been hiding compulsive pornography use, your emotional wellbeing suffers. Negative emotions like anger, frustration, shame, grief, sadness, fear, and hopelessness...
9 Ways Partners of Porn Addicts Can Tackle Self-Doubt
No matter how confident you may have been before discovery, finding out that your significant other has been compulsively using pornography creates self-doubt. It breaks your trust, causes emotional instability, and leaves you feeling uncertain. Moments of self-doubt...
3 Steps To Start Taking Back Control Of Your Life After Discovery
After discovering your significant other has been hiding an obsession with pornography, your life can get pulled off course. Your daily routine consists of worrying about what he is doing and what else you don’t know about him or his unhealthy habits. Surviving the...
Accepting My Husband’s Obsession with Pornography
Shifting to an acceptance that my husband had a long-standing secret obsession with pornography that might always be a part of his life…a part of our life…wasn’t easy. It wasn’t the porn itself that caused the problem. It was that my intimate partner, the person I...
Building Resilience After Discovering his Obsession with Pornography
Discovering your significant other’s secret obsession with pornography turned your life upside down. You were shocked and overwhelmed. In an instant, everything you thought you knew came into question. The answers you found weren't easy to accept, but they helped you...
Shift Your Focus to Feel Better
After discovery, everything in your life can seem like a challenge. From the time you wake up until the time you go to bed, his secret porn use weighs on your mind. Thinking about it produces negative feelings like anger, sadness, and uncertainty. You worry about the...
Stop Competing With Pornography
It’s very common for partners of porn addicts to feel like they need to compete with pornography and the seemingly perfect bodies of porn stars. You have images of the women he looks at seared into your mind. When you compare your body to theirs, you feel like you...
Moving Forward After Betrayal
Do you feel lost since discovery? Do you feel like you're not yourself anymore? Living through the emotional trauma caused by your significant other’s secret obsession with pornography changes you. You internalize the betrayal and wonder what you did to cause it or...
Building a Strong Relationship After Discovering His Secret Obsession with Porn
A strong relationship will take effort from both of you. As you learn more about who he really is and he learns who you really are, your relationship will evolve. Sometimes for the better and sometimes not. Discovering his secret compulsive porn use was not for the...
Welcome
I am a wife, a mother, a sister, a daughter, an animal lover, a wine lover, a music lover, and the partner of a pornography addict. I look forward to connecting with you through your healing process. In my professional life, I am a healthcare businesswoman and a certified transformational life coach. Because of my own personal experience as a partner of a pornography addict, I am on a mission to provide resources for partners of pornography addicts, and help others heal and grow so they can live an amazing life.
-Rene
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