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This is a safe space to find resources for partners of pornography addicts. It’s with mixed feelings that I say that I’m glad you’re here because I wish you weren’t going through this situation at all. At the same time, I’ve been there and know how much his pornography addiction has hurt you and turned your life upside down. Let’s experience transformation and healing together.
Tame the Chaos Caused by his Porn Addiction
Has the discovery of your husband's pornography addiction turned your life upside down? The chaos that it causes extends to all areas of your life and affects you personally, affects your household, affects your social activities, and the list goes on. It doesn't seem...
Healing from the Betrayal of his Addiction
Healing from the betrayal caused by your husband’s pornography addiction can be a long and winding journey. In my mind, healing actually begins after a period of recovery from the acute traumatic experiences that you have had. When you begin to heal, you’ve gotten...
Betrayal from His Porn Addiction
If you are the partner of a porn addict, you probably feel betrayed. You may not define it as betrayal but you do know that his pornography use and his choice to hide it from you doesn’t feel good at all. Actually, it feels worse than just “not good”. What is...
Disbelief – Even After He Passed a Polygraph Test
For partners, being lied to can be worse than any other part of the whole pornography addiction and discovery situation. We are in disbelief that our husband has a porn addiction and has been hiding it from us. We are in disbelief that we didn’t see the signs. And, we...
It’s No Surprise that Partners are Angry!
Partners of porn addicts are angry for many reasons and their anger is justified. We are not the one with a porn addiction and we didn’t ask to be in this situation. But, we are the ones that have to deal with the emotional turmoil that it causes. In most cases, we...
How to Deal with Unsupportive Friends and Family
Dealing with the discovery of your husband’s pornography addiction can be very lonely. Often, we don’t want to tell anyone about it because we feel embarrassed and ashamed. We don't know where to find supportive resources within our personal support systems. It is...
Overcome the Belief that You Contributed to His Addiction
None of this is your fault! You had no idea that he was a porn addict or how broken he was when you engaged in a relationship with him. The addiction probably existed long before you ever came into the picture. Most addicts start viewing pornography when they are...
Finding Support: Who Can You Turn To?
As a partner of porn addict, you may feel like you don’t have anyone to turn to for support. Talking about the situation and knowing who to trust can be very difficult. But, finding support is an important part of recovery for partners. The right support system can...
The Cycle of Emotions that Partners Experience
Whether it’s the cycle of discovering your husband's addiction and then his promise to quit using pornography, or maybe its the rediscovery caused by a relapse and now you have to face the betrayal all over again. The cycle of emotions could also be what you feel as...
Welcome
I am a wife, a mother, a sister, a daughter, an animal lover, a wine lover, a music lover, and the partner of a pornography addict. I look forward to connecting with you through your healing process. In my professional life, I am a healthcare businesswoman and a certified transformational life coach. Because of my own personal experience as a partner of a pornography addict, I am on a mission to provide resources for partners of pornography addicts, and help others heal and grow so they can live an amazing life.
-Rene
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