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This is a safe space to find resources for partners of pornography addicts. It’s with mixed feelings that I say that I’m glad you’re here because I wish you weren’t going through this situation at all. At the same time, I’ve been there and know how much his pornography addiction has hurt you and turned your life upside down. Let’s experience transformation and healing together.
Create a Positive Mindset
As a partner who has discovered his porn addiction, you have faced a great deal of fear and uncertainty. Endless questions run through your mind about how you can help him and whether or not you should even try. It can be exhausting. Bouncing between strong emotions...
Self-Love is So Important for Partners
Throughout your relationship, you have shown a tremendous amount of strength. You had no idea that you would need every ounce of that strength to recover and heal from his porn addiction. I'm sure you can think of several examples of how your talents and skills made...
Forgiveness is For You
Forgiving your husband won't be easy, but it's worth a try. The anger and hurt that you feel is completely justified. But, the longer you hold onto it and replay the discovery and all of the details of his betrayal over and over in your mind, the more it negatively...
Everything Changes After Discovery
It's crazy to think about how much your life changes after you discover his pornography addiction. In a split second you go from being in a stable, committed relationship with your best friend and life partner to being thrown into feeling insecure, angry, and afraid....
Discovering his Compulsive Porn Consumption is Traumatic
The betrayal, the lies, the secrecy, and the gaslighting all cause pain and trauma. As you process the negative impact that his compulsive porn consumption has had on you, support from others may be necessary. They can help you heal your trauma wounds. Therapists,...
3 Ways Pornography Distorts Intimate Relationships
Pornography distorts intimate relationships in many ways. What the addict sees in porn videos can lead to unrealistic expectations about sex and about your relationship overall. Compulsive masturbation to porn creates a ritual where it becomes the number one priority...
How to Deal with your Husband’s Addiction
It’s not easy to deal with your husband’s addiction. It will take a lot of strength and self-love to move beyond the pain into self-care and healing.Dealing with your husband’s addiction Know you cannot fix your husband’s addiction. He has to take accountability for...
Here is Why He Prefers to Masturbate
One of the most difficult aspects of porn addiction is when a partner realizes that her husband prefers to masturbate instead of being sexually intimate as a couple. There are so many factors that drive his preference for masturbation. With masturbation, he is in...
Basic Information for Partners of Porn Addicts
The most important piece of information for partners of porn addicts to hear is that you have been betrayed and none of this is your fault. When you discover his compulsive and secret porn use, it is a complete shock. You will likely experience shock again when you...
Welcome
I am a wife, a mother, a sister, a daughter, an animal lover, a wine lover, a music lover, and the partner of a pornography addict. I look forward to connecting with you through your healing process. In my professional life, I am a healthcare businesswoman and a certified transformational life coach. Because of my own personal experience as a partner of a pornography addict, I am on a mission to provide resources for partners of pornography addicts, and help others heal and grow so they can live an amazing life.
-Rene
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