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This is a safe space to find resources for partners of pornography addicts. It’s with mixed feelings that I say that I’m glad you’re here because I wish you weren’t going through this situation at all. At the same time, I’ve been there and know how much his pornography addiction has hurt you and turned your life upside down. Let’s experience transformation and healing together.
Reclaiming Your Personal Power After Betrayal
Discovering your husband’s secret obsession with pornography will challenge you in ways you’ve never been challenged before. The negative emotions and betrayal will test your inner strength but you can get through it and intentionally rebuild a life that serves you. ...
10 Ways to Value Yourself When Your Husband is a Porn Addict
When you discover your husband's struggle with porn addiction, it can feel devastating. It shakes your foundation of trust, self-esteem, and emotional security. In these moments, it’s easy to question your worth, blame yourself, or feel lost in the chaos. However,...
Building an Intentional Life After Betrayal
Discovering your husband’s secret obsession with pornography will challenge you in ways you’ve never been challenged before. The negative emotions and betrayal will test your inner strength but you can get through it and intentionally rebuild a life that serves you. ...
Creating Emotional Safety After Betrayal
Betrayal can be one of the most challenging things to deal with in an intimate relationship. It shakes the foundation of trust, leaving you feeling vulnerable and unsafe. If you have discovered your significant other has been hiding an unhealthy obsession with...
Focus on What You Can Control and Rediscover Your Strength
If you are the partner of a porn addict, you've experienced the heart-wrenching sting of betrayal. I know the journey ahead may seem daunting. I’ve been there. You wonder how to get over the shock of not only discovering his secret porn use, but also the fact that...
Strengthened by Betrayal: Healing After Discovering Your Husband’s Porn Addiction
Discovering your husband’s porn addiction shakes the foundation of trust and security you thought you had in your relationship. It leaves you feeling lost and vulnerable. As you heal, you may be able to look back on this experience and see it as an opportunity for...
Did My Recovery Really Have to Take Thirteen Years?
When we finally went to therapy, we had been struggling with my husband’s secret compulsive porn use for thirteen years. Discovering he was still compulsively using porn after promises to stop. Finding out he lied again. Feeling like he looked at other women because I...
Nurturing Self-Compassion: A Healing Path for Partners of Porn Addicts
Nurturing self-compassion is important after discovering your significant other’s secret obsession with pornography. It's a powerful tool that not only heals the emotional wounds but it can also strengthen the foundation of your relationship. Self-compassion allows...
Disclosure Was a Let Down
Disclosure is a common part of the therapy process for pornography addicts. In a disclosure, the addict writes out his full history related to his pornography use and reads it to his partner. The idea is that the partner will have the complete and honest truth about...
Welcome
I am a wife, a mother, a sister, a daughter, an animal lover, a wine lover, a music lover, and the partner of a pornography addict. I look forward to connecting with you through your healing process. In my professional life, I am a healthcare businesswoman and a certified transformational life coach. Because of my own personal experience as a partner of a pornography addict, I am on a mission to provide resources for partners of pornography addicts, and help others heal and grow so they can live an amazing life.
-Rene
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