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This is a safe space to find resources for partners of pornography addicts. It’s with mixed feelings that I say that I’m glad you’re here because I wish you weren’t going through this situation at all. At the same time, I’ve been there and know how much his pornography addiction has hurt you and turned your life upside down. Let’s experience transformation and healing together.
Here is Why He Prefers to Masturbate
One of the most difficult aspects of porn addiction is when a partner realizes that her husband prefers to masturbate instead of being sexually intimate as a couple. There are so many factors that drive his preference for masturbation. With masturbation, he is in...
Basic Information for Partners of Porn Addicts
The most important piece of information for partners of porn addicts to hear is that you have been betrayed and none of this is your fault. When you discover his compulsive and secret porn use, it is a complete shock. You will likely experience shock again when you...
An Overview of How Porn Kills Love
Sex between a married couple isn’t just about intercourse. It is about love, trust, intimacy, and being accepted unconditionally by your spouse. Porn kills love because it is about sex…raw sex. In marriage, there is an emotional and physical bond that forms between...
Porn Addiction Hurts the Partner
Porn addiction hurts the partner in ways they never could have imagined. In a relationship where you once felt safe, loved, important…you now feel betrayed. Betrayal hurts. For partners of porn addicts, the betrayal causes significant emotional pain. Unfortunately,...
13 Ways to Decrease Stress Caused by his Porn Addiction
When you feel overwhelmed or under pressure, you experience stress. Discovering your husband’s porn addiction is very overwhelming and stressful. You feel it physically and emotionally. Cycling through multiple discoveries and not engaging in your own individual...
How Does Porn Destroy a Marriage?
Porn is one of the most common things that can destroy a marriage. In divorce cases, the majority of the time…porn is cited as a contributing factor. Single handedly, my husband’s compulsive, secret, risky use of porn was the thing that led to my divorce. When your...
How His Porn Addiction Ruined Your Self-Esteem
According to dictionary.com, self-esteem is synonymous with self-respect. Having positive self-esteem means that you view yourself in a favorable light. You feel worthy and confident. Regardless of the circumstances, you appreciate yourself, what you are able to do,...
Healing the Pain: Help for Wives of Porn Addicts
Dealing with his betrayal is one of the most difficult things you will have to do. Healing the pain takes time and it requires a shift in your focus from him to you. You are in new territory and trying your best to make sense of the situation while figuring out what...
Why his Porn Habit Hurts
Discovering your husband’s porn habit is traumatic. Trauma hurts and it turns your life upside down as you stare betrayal in the face. It is devastating to find out that your husband has been getting his sexual needs met somewhere. It doesn't matter that porn isn’t a...
Welcome
I am a wife, a mother, a sister, a daughter, an animal lover, a wine lover, a music lover, and the partner of a pornography addict. I look forward to connecting with you through your healing process. In my professional life, I am a healthcare businesswoman and a certified transformational life coach. Because of my own personal experience as a partner of a pornography addict, I am on a mission to provide resources for partners of pornography addicts, and help others heal and grow so they can live an amazing life.
-Rene
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