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This is a safe space to find resources for partners of pornography addicts. It’s with mixed feelings that I say that I’m glad you’re here because I wish you weren’t going through this situation at all. At the same time, I’ve been there and know how much his pornography addiction has hurt you and turned your life upside down. Let’s experience transformation and healing together.
How Betrayal Changes You
Partners of porn addicts are betrayed by one of the people they trust most in the world, their significant other. Discovery changes you. Discovering that your significant other has a secret, porn habit is devastating. It’s a shock. It’s a loss in so many ways. You...
How to Change Negative Self-Talk to Positive Self-Talk
Self-talk is the inner dialogue you have with yourself. The inner dialogue consists of the thoughts that you don’t speak out loud but you say to yourself in your mind. It can be positive, negative, or neutral. People in general often engage in negative self-talk....
Porn Addiction Ruins Intimate Relationships
Intimacy is a physical and emotional closeness between you and your significant other. You feel supported through the intimate connection you have with him. Intimate relationships provide a safe place to be vulnerable. A place where you can share your thoughts and...
The Partner of a Porn Addict: My Personal Story
If you are the partner of a porn addict, I know you are facing a very challenging time in your relationship and your life. Discovering your significant other has a problem with pornography is devastating. You don’t have any context to help you cope or deal with it....
3 Ways Porn Addiction Hurts the Partner
Porn addiction hurts. It hurts the addict, it hurts their family and friends, and it hurts society. Porn addiction is extremely painful for the partner. It is soul crushing to know that someone you love deeply seeks sexual pleasure from outside of your intimate...
Letting Go of the Pain Caused by His Porn Addiction
Discovering that your significant other has a secret obsession with pornoraphy is painful. Letting go of the pain is a conscious decision. You have to decide to focus on the future and on your growth as an individual instead of painful memories related to his porn...
Trust After Betrayal
In an intimate relationship, you expect your significant other to respect you, have your best interests at heart and to be honest with you. You trust in the love that you feel for each other. After betrayal, trust disappears. When you discover that he has been using...
Stop the Pain Caused by his Pornography Addiction
Discovering your significant other’s pornography addiction hurts. It can be difficult to stop the pain because there are so many different things causing it. The pain comes from knowing he was hiding something from you and lying to you on a regular basis. It’s painful...
Writing to Heal: A Beneficial Practice for Partners of Porn Addicts
Discovering secrets and lies in your intimate relationship creates emotional pain. Writing can be a helpful tool as you move through the pain and begin to heal the emotional wounds. Not only can writing help with the process of healing but it can improve your overall...
Welcome
I am a wife, a mother, a sister, a daughter, an animal lover, a wine lover, a music lover, and the partner of a pornography addict. I look forward to connecting with you through your healing process. In my professional life, I am a healthcare businesswoman and a certified transformational life coach. Because of my own personal experience as a partner of a pornography addict, I am on a mission to provide resources for partners of pornography addicts, and help others heal and grow so they can live an amazing life.
-Rene
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