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This is a safe space to find resources for partners of pornography addicts. It’s with mixed feelings that I say that I’m glad you’re here because I wish you weren’t going through this situation at all. At the same time, I’ve been there and know how much his pornography addiction has hurt you and turned your life upside down. Let’s experience transformation and healing together. 

Porn Addiction Ruins Intimate Relationships

Porn Addiction Ruins Intimate Relationships

Intimacy is a physical and emotional closeness between you and your significant other. You feel supported through the intimate connection you have with him. Intimate relationships provide a safe place to be vulnerable. A place where you can share your thoughts and...

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The Partner of a Porn Addict: My Personal Story

The Partner of a Porn Addict: My Personal Story

If you are the partner of a porn addict, I know you are facing a very challenging time in your relationship and your life. Discovering your significant other has a problem with pornography is devastating. You don’t have any context to help you cope or deal with it....

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3 Ways Porn Addiction Hurts the Partner

3 Ways Porn Addiction Hurts the Partner

Porn addiction hurts. It hurts the addict, it hurts their family and friends, and it hurts society. Porn addiction is extremely painful for the partner. It is soul crushing to know that someone you love deeply seeks sexual pleasure from outside of your intimate...

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Letting Go of the Pain Caused by His Porn Addiction

Letting Go of the Pain Caused by His Porn Addiction

Discovering that your significant other has a secret obsession with pornoraphy is painful. Letting go of the pain is a conscious decision. You have to decide to focus on the future and on your growth as an individual instead of painful memories related to his porn...

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Trust After Betrayal

Trust After Betrayal

In an intimate relationship, you expect your significant other to respect you, have your best interests at heart and to be honest with you. You trust in the love that you feel for each other. After betrayal, trust disappears.  When you discover that he has been using...

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Stop the Pain Caused by his Pornography Addiction

Stop the Pain Caused by his Pornography Addiction

Discovering your significant other’s pornography addiction hurts. It can be difficult to stop the pain because there are so many different things causing it. The pain comes from knowing he was hiding something from you and lying to you on a regular basis. It’s painful...

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Start a Journaling Practice to Heal

Start a Journaling Practice to Heal

Journaling is a great way to check in with yourself on a regular basis. A consistent journaling practice will capture your full range of thoughts and experiences from the good to the bad and everything in-between. Through journaling you can tap into how you feel, how...

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Three Characteristics of a Healed Partner

Three Characteristics of a Healed Partner

Once you’ve recovered from the trauma and healed from the betrayal, it’s time to focus on living a life that serves you and that lights you up. Facing that future can be a little scary and exciting at the same time. You are still learning about yourself and growing...

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coaching for partners of pornography addicts

Welcome

I am a wife, a mother, a sister, a daughter, an animal lover, a wine lover, a music lover, and the partner of a pornography addict. I look forward to connecting with you through your healing process. In my professional life, I am a healthcare businesswoman and a certified transformational life coach. Because of my own personal experience as a partner of a pornography addict, I am on a mission to provide resources for partners of pornography addicts, and help others heal and grow so they can live an amazing life.

-Rene

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Partner Recovery Coaching

Coaching for amazing women who have endured life with a pronography addict. You don’t want to stay stuck where you have been for years only to find out in the end that you need outside help. Let me help, start by booking a free consultation. 

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